As Paula had hoped, someone from the the club has answered my post OMG! I’ve Lost 15 Facebook Friends, and here is our interchange
Let me be really blunt with you. Had you pulled your “tough love” crap back at the beginning of this year when I told you that these people NEEDED to stop feeding him that crap, maybe we wouldn’t be in this position right now. I went to several of you, and no one did a damn thing for months. By then, it was so pervasive here , he just found a local source, and you and I both know who it is. Funny. You did nothing to fix that problem, leader.
So, first, you have no idea what is going on in the dynamic of my marriage. Who are you to assume you do?
Second, it is pretty presumptuous to assume you would have a better idea about what was going on in it than I do, or even Chef does. We lived in it…where were you again? Oh, that’s right. You were recovering from a motorcycle accident.
Third, you 86ed me on Chef’s word that I was having an affair…one that couldn’t be proven because it never happened. Yet. you spent plenty of time with Chef and knew he was plastered most of the time, screwing around, and driving blitzed all over town in the early morning hours in his cut. Oh, but I’m a problem for you? Oh, spare me.
You didn’t pull any tough love on me…What were you trying to get me to learn? Let my husband die if he wanted to? Let him be a meth addict if he wants? Let him screw whoever wants behind my back? Let him hit me, chase me with weapons? What exactly was this tough love suppose to teach me? And the day I need a daddy I’ll let you know. Ok?
Butt your noses out of my business, because you and I both know, I can be a very worthy enemy. I don’t want problems with any of you, but I’m not going to tolerate intimidation. It isn’t hard to figure out who this is — only about 4 of you even know what the equator is, and only two of you own a computer.
Chef just found that out yesterday not to threaten me. Would you like to also be included on that list? I’ve been leaving you alone…do you really want to do this with me? I go to court in a couple of weeks, and it is no problem for me to add some of you to the list if you really want to provoke me. Disappear from my life, and I’ll disappear from yours.
And here’s my advice. For once, someone grow some balls and use your own names. This little pop up throw away alias is pathetic. I find you guys laughable anymore.
Bird said,I love how people say “to my knowledge” when they want to give the appearance that they were innocent of that kind of gossip, but know full well that was what was being said. You proved my point. I got that little nugget from more than one source, including Chef, and you go ahead and spin it any way you want to. Yes. You knew it was being said. You 86′ed me for it, remember?
And if you were 86ing both of us out of tough love and to stay out of our business, what are you doing here on my blog, writing out your opinions? You have no problems jumping smack in the middle of people’s business. Why was it necessary this time? I’ll tell you why. I went public with the crap threats to protect myself, and you guys got some attention that you didn’t like. So, Chef had to go ’cause his ole lady was not controllable. Lee used to talk to me all the time about stuff like this. And if this was you guys not taking sides, why wasn’t Chef out at the same time as I was? Please. That is a lie and you know it. I guess you aren’t on the Equator of Truth after all.
As for the threats, I already have taken care of them legally. And I’ll continue to be wary of any of you that come near me. You know full well this was a cluster because you lost control of your group. Leadership is a skill I’m thinking you don’t have. And believe me, it isn’t any of you I’m afraid of. It is the morons you guys attract that I’m careful around. You guys I know very, very well.
One thing you might have forgotten is that I have some stuff sent to me in texts that have my motel and my car description in them. So, was I actually being paranoid, or did I have a reason to be careful? I mean, Gangland says you guys are badasses, right?
Maybe, Hun, you might want to check with your club, support clubs, and riding clubs and make sure that no one is actually threatening me before you go blowing your wind on here. This just shows me I bruised your ego and you just had to have the last word.